Ladies, tell me what is wrong with these men now days. Where did all the jerks come from, and why are they so selfish. I don't understand you men, and your stupid antics. What makes a man think that just because a woman loves the hell out of him. He can just keep on taking her for granted. Does he not know that she may eventually get up and walk away. So when that happens then she has done him an injustice. Yet the whole time that she was letting him know that she wasn't going to keep putting up with his crap. Yet being the confident man that we as women have made him, thinks nothing of her idle threats. This is because she has said it over and over again, and has done nothing, but still remained with him.

So ladies ask yourself this question: If I stay with this man I love, even if he treats me wrong. Will that make me happy for life. Or am I just settling for comfort, and convenience?

Sometimes comfort and the convenience of a man can be a bad thing, and we as women don't want to see it. Because we think that if we give them enough love and ourselves, he will do the same in return. NOT. He not only won't give it in return, but will expect you to give more. Like we don't give enough.

How many of you ladies work, and after work come home, start cleaning, and getting dinner ready. Not to mention getting the kids, and checking the dogs, and cats. So how many have a man that works as well, but when he comes home, he thinks he has nothing to do, but cool out and watch you do all the work.

And hooray hooray, when you're done with all that, you get the pleasure of shabang this man for a toal of about 6.7 minutes. That's only if he's a baller. Otherwise you only get 4.8 minutes. When its all over you're sitting up wondering is this as good as it gets. And depending on what your crutch is after sex. You depend on that to take care of the rest of your night. Why, because he's fast alseep, and snoring.

If he used to tell you how beautiful you were, and how much he loves you, and then stops. First you check yourself, and if you know that everything is in tack. Then you wonder, and if you're bold enough, ask him why he stopped.

If your man thinks that everyone else comes first, before you, then you really don't need the headache, stress. or the feeling of inadequacy. Don't put up with that ish.

Don't allow your man to put you on the back burner either. Espeially if he's one of those who thinks that friends come before you. Kick rocks buddy, and keep kicking. Or maybe his vehicle or bike, or boat is more important than you. Then he needs to depend on one of those objets to handle everything for him. Which means he doesn't need you to walk on.

So what do you do when you're in a relationship that you two don't really get along anymore, except when you have sex. That's the only thing you's have in common with each other. So is that a basis to stay in a relationship that keeps you tense all the time? Oh I think not. I think you better do some rethinking, and know sex is what you make it. Bite the bullet, and let that jerk go.

And Ladies please don't stay with a man if you know that he doesn't like your kids. For those of you that do, keep in mind that those same kids will grow up to be adults. When they do, they won't have a problem laying hands on that jerk you decided to stay with. Trust me, been there done that; and now days, these kids are no chumps. that goes for the girls too. So for all you Dads, and Stepdads that are jerks to your family's check yourselves, because there will be a few of getting a good well deserved ass whooping in the future.

The majority of will encounter a jerk at some point in our lives, but if we don't learn from his mistakes. That leaves us open to attract another of the same type. Don't be afraid to venture out, and try a brand new type of man. You know the one you want. The Man's man, as Bernie Mac say's. the kind that is compassionate, sensitive to your needs, understanding the fact that you as a woman go through things, they may not be able to explain. One that handles his business, and could handle yours, if need be. Someone that can put it down inthe bedroom, and stay true to the heart. However, we don't expect him to always keep it 100, because men also have things that they go throug. So we as women do understand, what men don'r want to discuss. Sometimes it;s better for some women to play dumb, like they don't know what's gong on with their man, but trust me gentlemen, they know. (We are true Detectives when it comes to our men). So for you liars and decievers out there (Jerks) know this men, your girl knows you probably better than you know yourself.

For those of you few men that are true to the heart, and just a good man all around. My aht goes off to you for trying to always keep it 100.

Once again another day in the Jungle of man. Okay, so today I needed my ex, to fix my car. I alread had two other people to do it, and my brother. So why was I waitng for this jerk to come do what he said he would do. I like John Waynem and the other old cats. Be a man of your word, cause that is all you have. I suddenly remembered why I left him in the first place. Not ever keeping his word, among other things. So after my brother decided that I had waited long enough. He said to hell with my ex always messing around. so he came and handled his business, and the car was fixed. So I decided that as fr as my ex was concerned, While he's trying to get back together with me. He can surely forget that. I have no more time for him. I say this to make a point. Sometimes we think that our mate may make a change, when we decide to leave, but only some of them really get it. the rest of them are like my ex, just don't get it at all.Then they wonder why you would rather be alone, until you find someone else. Jerks.